Keeping a relationship together can be tough, especially if one or both of you feel as if the "magic" is gone. That's the time to get creative and be thoughtful, finding new and exciting ways of bringing back the love. A dance class together might be just the thing the two of you need, as there are so many ways in which dance improves life and the quality of it, particularly when it comes to romance.

1. "Music Inflames Temperament"

If anyone understood the truly profound impact of music on the human condition, it was Jim Morrison. In his poem, The Ghost Song, he wrote that "music inflames temperament," and for a relationship, this rings endless truth. Choose a dance class that features the music that brought you together as a couple or that played in the background on your first couple of dates. From hip-hop to ballroom dancing, the music will bring back the memories as it brings you together on the dance floor.

2. Dance Creates (Or Recreates) Chemistry

Either dancing side-by-side, such as you might in line dancing, or close-up and personal during a Waltz, being together in the atmosphere and energy of dance should bring back the chemistry to your relationship. As your eyes meet and you anticipate the next steps, your minds should wander to past places where you first found love and affection for each other.

3. Laughing At Yourselves And Each Other Is Healthy

If you're both brave and dare to attempt something totally different, like hoop or belly dancing, you're bound to produce some comic moves and misunderstandings. This provides opportunity to laugh at and with each other, and few things are as medicinal as laughter.

4. You'll Be Reaching A Goal Together

Beyond the purpose of putting the spark back in your lives, dance is an excellent opportunity to reach different goals, from strengthening your hearts to strengthening your abdominal muscles, and when you accomplish a goal together, the bond between you should strengthen, too.

5. Getting Physical Encourages Intimacy

Ever had a rough day and your partner or spouse happened to place a calming hand on your shoulder or a gentle touch on your arm, instantly alleviating your woes? That's because physical touch is a vital component of human relationships, even between strangers. A comforting and compassionate gesture can yield effects greater than words and leaves a lasting impression. Getting physical on the dance floor, whether it's to a fast and flirtatious Salsa or slow and sensual Rumba, should bring back the missing intimacy.

6. Having Fun Can Defuse Conflict

If the two of you have been arguing a lot lately, take it to the dance floor. Doing so can alleviate tension and stress and help defuse the conflicts between you.

7. Doing Something Good For Yourselves Fosters Positive Energy

Have you both fallen into a rut of work, sleep, and no play? Are you spending too much time on the sofa and not enough time outdoors, holding hands, or otherwise enjoying the pleasure of each other's company? Do something good for yourselves, and watch the dramatic change in positive energy. Not that a dance class can solve all your woes, but when you engage in activities that are good for you, your confidence gets a boost, and that can lead to all kinds of good things.

8. Slimming Down And Toning Up May Fire Up Mutual Attractiveness

If either or both of you have allowed complacent eating to overwhelm your waistline, sign up for a Contemporary Brazilian or Jitterbug Swing class, where you're practically guaranteed to lose a few pounds if you participate at full force. These classes can work nearly every area of your body, helping you to slim down and tone up, thereby (hopefully) firing up the attraction you have for each other. If you're not sure what type of dance you'd benefit most from, call the dance studio and ask an instructor for details. Some types work the core, where others will get your legs in great shape, but you're sure to find what will help your physiques the most.

9. Competition Creates A Cool Vibe Between Couples

While you probably don't want to try out for Dancing With The Stars anytime soon, joining a competitive class may make for a healthy, antagonistic vibe between you and your significant other. Playing games, accepting defeat, and bragging of victory should inspire a playfulness between you.

10. You'll Be Making Time For Each Other

Actually scheduling time for each other is a way of demonstrating importance, especially if being busy all the time is keeping you apart. Find an evening during the week you can both agree to or schedule Saturday afternoon as your dance time together and feel how making time makes you feel more valued and even desirable.